Sunday, February 26, 2017

Basketball Season is in the Books

With the move, new jobs, and 3 kids playing bball in 3 different locations, this winter has been a blur.

The older 3 all played basketball again this winter.  For the first time, they were all some of the oldest in each of their age groups.  I am glad I kept Hunter and Ashton in their respective age group.  Looking back, I might should have moved big ol' Sheppy up.  I guess it was a good confidence boost, but he dominated his little league.

Unfortunately, our move prohibited the boys from finishing their seasons.  I really hated it especially for Ashton's team as he is their clutch player. The little dude can play.  Some of the black parents call him Silk because of his hair and his moves.  He and his buddy DeAngelo were quite an effective pair on the court. Shepherd's team doesnt have playoffs so he only missed the last game.  Hunter, well, Hunter is not what you would call a basketball Jones.  haha.  He has fun out there and is a pretty good defender, just dont ask him to take a shot.

Here some pics to sum up the season.

Shepherd - I think he had 90% of the rebounds, 90% of the points, and 90% of the steals for his team.  His team was not overly good, I think they won 3 of 8 games.
Receiving the ball from his friend.

Getting ready to play defense

Ashton- He had a great year.  Scored the majority of the points.  The games he didnt score a lot, he was the highest with assists.  Even though he is small, he also is a good rebounder and is quick!  Ashton's team finished the regular season in 2nd place.
Free throw (he made it)

Break away

Long shot (Ash is on the right, the ball is in the top middle of the picture)  I think he missed it though.

All of his pics are blurry.
 Hunter-  As I said, at this point, basketball is not Hunt's best sport.  I can probably take the blame for that because though I look like I would be a great basketball player, I was pretty bad.  haha.  However, his height is definitely his advantage out there.  Now, if we could just get him to jump!  He is not sure if he is going to play again next year or not.  It is definitely not his passion.  His team finished somewhere in the middle of the pack.
Nice block (he is black)

#8 getting ready to rebound
 Bennett-  He told me today, "I dont like basketball or football."  haha- I think he is has seen too much of both recently.  So, what does Bennett do during the games... plays with my phone.
After Ashton's game... waiting on Hunter's to start

Love this series of pics he took of himself.  haha.  And I seriously do not remember even talking during this game much less yelling. hmmmm.
I must say that I am glad basketball is over.

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Quick Update and Stats

UPDATES
Week one of "I Go Back to Work" is in the books.  And I have to admit that it was a pretty smooth transition.  I think I am going to enjoy my job.  It is pretty flexible which is going to let me ease into working mom from stay at home mom.

The boys also had a good half week at Clemson El.  They already seem to know the routine and seem to enjoy the school.  Bennett and Mantis also got off to a good start.  Monday and Tuesday of last week, Mantis had all 4 boys and took them to the Botanical Gardens, a rock museum, and the power plant.  Ashton texted me both days saying how much fun they were having.  It made me happy.  Let me just say how much I adore my parents.  They have made what could be a VERY hard move into a relatively easy one.

Chad, the boys, and I went to see The Lego Batman movie yesterday... so cute.  Bennett was sobbing at the end because he thought something bad was going to happen to Batman.  I never would have expected that from me... it was really sweet.  We then ran up to Chad's parents to celebrate Grandma's 60th birthday!

STATS
A week and a half ago, I was able to get Hunter and Bennett in for their annual check-ups.  Both had to have shots and of course, they handled them well.

Hunter
Weight- 100.8 lbs (he gained 20 lbs this year!!! crazy!)  86%
Height- 5' 2" (he is measured in feet now!!! crazy!) 97%

Bennett
Weight- 32.2 lbs (18%)  he is exactly 1 lb less than Ashton had 4
Height- 39.75" ( 38%) and exactly the same height as Smash at 4

 I know this was a small post/ update, but guys, life is buys right now.  Next post will highlight the boys winter basketball seasons.  So stay tuned and keep those prayers coming!!!

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

When you Want to Be Daniel but you are really Jonah

I really dont have time to sit here and blog, but if I dont then this hectic, crazy, wild chapter of our lives will not be documented.... and what a shame that would be.

I love Daniel.  His utter trust in God's plan.  He didnt go around telling God "no" or "wait".  Daniel just obeyed.  I, however, relate to good ol' Jonah.  Jonah who was given a job to do and not only said "no" but ran away.  God gave Jonah a second chance... how many times has God given me that second chance as well...

Lets back up to this past Thanksgiving.  Chad, casually, mentions Pickens High School calling him to see if he is interested in applying for the head coaching job at PHS.  After a very successful season in Clover, moving wasnt really on either one of radar screens... but, apparently, when your home high school calls, then you think about it.  After some thought and prayer, Chad decided to apply and was offered the job.

Though I knew I was probably heading back to work this next school year, the move back to Pickens County confirmed it as it is a pretty big pay cut for Chad.  But, he has wanted to get back to Pickens County, so it was worth the cut (I think... haha).

The principal mentioned to Chad that he had a position that he wished I could apply for but the application process had already closed (this was in December.).  I didnt know much about the job so just dismissed it to bad timing.  A week later I got a letter for the SC Department of Education saying that they would not accept my PRAXIS scores and I would need to re-take the test (a test I took over ten years ago).  In addition, I would have to go through PACE all over again.  I was feeling a bit discouraged by this feeling like teaching might be a closed door.

Thankfully, God is a God of second chances as he proved back in 2004 when I turned down a teaching job to conquer the business world (didnt happen) only to realize that my heart was with high school kids... God opened up the exact same job just a few short months later and I jumped at the chance as it turned out, I didnt like the business world.

God, again, showed this Jonah girl that he creates second chances by opening up the exact same job that the principal said I would be a good fit for. I guess they offered it to someone who turned it down. I applied, interviewed, and accepted the job in a couple week window.  I start Monday... yes, this Monday.  I had my new employee orientation yesterday and I am now back in the work world.  I am slightly apprehensive but mostly excited.  The boys and I leave Chad in Clover this Thursday. My parents, ever gracious, have opened up their home to us yet again.  Thankfully, the basement is finished this time so we can get out of their hair.

My job title is a Career Development Facilitator (CDF).  Each of the four Pickens County high schools have been allotted one CDF.  We work together as a team and individually with  middle and high school students to help them map out a career path (at least I think that is what I do... it is kind of vague... haha).
Official... Mom said I look like a martian.  haha

The boys have been enrolled in school.  We toured it yesterday and I felt such a peace about it.  It is convenient to my parents house as they have stepped in to help us adjust.  Mom volunteered to take the boys to school most mornings on her way to work (yay!).  And, my precious dad is going to keep Bennett during the day and pick the older three up from school.  I feel so blessed by them.  Chad's parents are less than 40 minutes away (as is his aunt) and his cousin is in Clemson- they have all offered to pitch in and help when I need them.

Outside of their new school.

So, lots of changes.  The boys last day at Larne Elementary was today.  Hunter has been quiet.  As the oldest and most mature, it is finally hitting him that this is real and it is happening fast.
Last day at Larne
Leaving Clover is bittersweet.  Everyone says, "oh, you get to be closer to your family." And though, that is true... it is also true that we are now going to be further away from some family.  The past four years I have gotten to hang out with one of my very favorite people.  My GrandmaDean.  I know she will only be two hours up the road, but I will so miss our weekly Tuesday hang out sessions.  She has definitely become my best friend while living in Clover.  She came over today and helped me pack my kitchen up.  GrandmaDean, I have LOVED hanging out with you and we will be visiting this summer!!! So get ready!  I also am moving further away from my brother and Riggs.  Again, I have been able to spend precious time with Nolan these past four years as we have worked on his house/ yard and he has helped me tote kids to games when schedules collided.  I have been able to dogsit my dog nephew (and hope to be able to still do this once we buy a house.)  I have made some fun friends along the way as well (Youngs, Smiths, the sisters)

EDIT- Thank you to the Clover ARP girls and the youth group who threw me (our family) a Surprise (though I knew about it) Going Away Party.  It was a great time to fellowship with people that we have grown to love over the years!  Thanks again friends.
:)  love her.

... I hope to keep in touch and remember Clemson football games can always bring us back together!

We are all just holding on tight and letting God pull us along.  He has crafted this amazing plan and all the pieces are falling together so well.  From my parents finishing their basement last spring, to dad being retired this year, to even the great weather that has allowed me to pack, God truly has it all worked out.  I dont know why I waste time with worry and doubt.  He has proven His great love for my family time and time again.  I saw a great quote by Elisabeth Elliot recently... "Fear arises when we imagine that everything depends on us."

Say a prayer for us over the next couple weeks/ months.  So many changes but so much to look forward to.

As I tell myself and the boys... Joshua 1:9 "Be Brave."